What are we growing towards? Consider this…we are continually growing and we are either growing towards being in a state of non-reaction/peace or towards being in a state of conflict. How do we know?
When we are bothered about something, there is conflict…it really is that simple. When we recognize there is conflict, how do we find our way to being at peace with it? People may say they don’t feel they’re bothered about anything and yet they are going in for surgery next month….or work is suggesting they go for mediation around something…or their spouse is talking about hating their job and they find it hard to listen to the same stuff every day. Those are examples of people feeling conflict coming from the body mind or spirit.
This past week, Sharon and I facilitated a telecall series on depression. I had invited my daughter to submit some things that she felt were maybe causing her to feel depressed. She thought about it and didn’t feel she had any issues so she didn’t submit any.
The very next day after the telecall series was ended…she called me. She so wonderfully asked me to help her with her kids. One of them was sick again and she just didn’t know what to do with the kids anymore. She asked why wouldn’t this sickness stuff stop already? The whole winter the kids had been sick in some way where they ended up at the doctors for something. As she talked I could just feel how depressed she was in what she was saying. I asked her if it bothers her to have her kids sick again. Of course it did! I shared with her how there was such a depressed feeling there. Once we started talking, it was like a revelation for her and she could feel it. My daughter was in a place where she didn’t ‘think’ she had any issues and got to a place where her kids were sick again causing her to ‘feel’ hopeless and depressed.
I had talked further to my daughter about what she felt depression was. She had shared how she couldn’t understand how people could sit in their depression and not do anything about it. I’m not going to share the whole conversation but we did clear around an element of control that she was working with. One of the things about depression or anything anyone around us is feeling….we can’t change anyone around us but we sure can shift what we feel inside.
I know for myself, I had felt I still had a depression type feeling around money. I didn’t feel I could create money. That feeling and more had shifted through the telecall series. I have been walking through some of my money issues with this India campaign going on right now. Yes there is conflict and the only way I know how to feel at peace inside is to take the ‘not so great’ feelings and clear whatever is causing them…leaving me in a place of feeling at peace with whatever happens.
Our day to day living brings us life stuff. When we do anything and feel conflict we can grow towards feeling at peace around whatever is causing us to feel the conflict. Those causes come from within us and that is where they will be resolved. Energy clearing is definitely one of those ways to clear conflict.
You don’t need to know all the questions to ask….or even all the answers. That’s where Sharon and I come in. One of the most important roles for you is to become more and more aware of what you are feeling. Once you feel something…it’s on its way to being healed.
We are always rewarded for our inner work.