This past Friday, my daughter, Brittany took our 2 year old granddaughter, Calli to the museum. Of all the displays there, Brittany shared something that transpired at the dinosaur display. The display houses huge dinosaurs, each dinosaur having a recording of what it sounded like. When they left the display, Brittany didn’t give it another thought until bedtime when Calli seemed to be bothered about something. Calli had been different in some way all evening and then needed to have the light on to go to sleep.
Our family went out for breakfast Sunday morning and shared in the story of the visit to the museum. Brittany asked me if Calli was affected by the dinosaur display. I connected to the energy and started to share that Calli wasn’t initially bothered by the display but was very much affected by the energy that was being ‘projected onto her’. I explained that whoever was standing to her back right side was ‘projecting a fear’ about how children would be scared once they started to hear the loud scary sounds the dinosaurs made. Brittany confirmed to the back right side was a lady who was concerned about the little children and how they may react when the roars of the dinosaurs started. Brittany also works with energy and could feel what I was picking up allowing her to see what the change in Calli’s behaviour was reflecting.
If you become aware of a change where you notice your children are ‘reacting’ in some way, what is causing the reaction? I ask you that question to share with you there are many elements involved when reactions surface. What are the ‘reactions’ highlighting as the underlying issue? This story is about a child but not only directed at the learning for children.
Any time there is a change in behaviour where someone is bothered in some way, the behavioural change will not be coming from something physical as much as it will be coming from something non-physical, which would be energy.
Think about something that you are afraid of…afraid of hurting someone or giving the wrong impression, for example. How would you feel if that happened? How would you feel if you saw someone else do that? Knowing what that would feel like to you, would you make an effort to make sure no one had to experience that?
Using the example with Brittany, will every child walking through the door to the dinosaur display be scared of the loud roaring noises? Could a person who has fears around children being scared be bothered when children come in for the first time? Becoming aware of the feelings involved and the energy around those feelings will make a huge difference in resolving the changes in behaviour.
All I am showing you are the feelings of people can easily be projected onto others. Becoming aware of this reality will make all the difference when you go to do something. How do you feel…is it your fear or their fear? Is it your bother or their bother? Where the projection comes in is ‘thinking’ that the children will be scared or another person will be hurt. Will they be?