What causes the changes in relationships? Why do some relationships stay together for years and years and some relationships end abruptly?
As I was doing inner work on myself this week, I started to look at what caused the changes in my relationships. I thought about my marriage, when did something change? I was shown 2 months after we were married I allowed my husband to truly be himself. Somehow there was a subtle change that allowed both of us to be ourselves. Then I thought about my relationship with my twin. I wanted to know when it started to really change. I was shown it was the first level one workshop we taught together, at which time I started to empower myself. The changes within my Self allowed us to become more of the individuals we are today.
I know for fact in both those examples I did not consciously decide I was going to change the way things were. What I discovered in looking back was those were times when I grew in many wonderful ways.
When you do any kind of inner work, whether it is with mediation, prayer or energy work there will be changes. When you change how you react to things, there will be changes. When you start to allow rather than control, there will be changes. How do you feel those changes will impact your relationships? Today they may seem hard to accept. Tomorrow you may have a sense of appreciation for all there is.
When you forget your specialness, I will be here to remind you!