self empowerment

What works now?

October 16, 2011 By Sheila Unique Leave a Comment

Do you remember as a child using different strategies to get things you really wanted? You may have batted your eyes and got to ride your bike for an extra hour. You may have whined and snivelled getting your own room at last. Did you ever bride your sister or brother not to tell on you? What about paying your sister to clean your room so you could go out with your friends? If you had a big family, I’m sure you got creative! Now that you are grown up, do those same strategies still work when trying to get what you want?

It has been my experience, whining and snivelling doesn’t work when talking to a loans officer. Batting my eyes doesn’t work anymore when trying to get out of a parking ticket. The paying money thing does still have merit at times! I don’t think I’m alone when it comes to having to change the way I do things.

There is more to ‘getting what you want’ than meets the eye. Your energy plays a huge part in determining the outcome of any situation. If you ‘expect to get what you want’, people will feel it. If you have any hesitation with what you want, people will feel that hesitation and uncertainty. Believe it or not, they may not know you are feeling hesitant but they will sense something ‘doesn’t feel right’ about going ahead with the deal.

Yes, your energy communicates louder than you know. You only have to become aware of what you are feeling, become real with those feelings and then move into a place of clearing the blocks that are preventing you from getting what you want. Now that you are grown up, there are wonderful new strategies available for you to consider. What has worked for you?

Asking for Guidance

October 7, 2011 By Sheila Unique Leave a Comment

Are you the kind of person who asks others for help when you have a problem or challenge ahead of you? Are you the kind of person that asks for inner guidance on how you may resolve your issues? You may seek that information in a number of ways like talking with a friend or person you met, praying or meditating.

Are you aware that you can access any information you need, get any answer you need, when you need it? It is as easy as asking, and then being open to how the information may come to you.

If the Universe wanted to give you information in response to your questions or request for guidance, how do you feel it would come to you; what would you expect? Information comes through many forms and one common form is actually the people in your every day life. Those people may have the information you are looking.

There will be times when someone lets you know there is a phone call for you or lets you know you are required to attend a meeting. There will be times when your information is addressed specifically for you and comes right to you, like your mail delivery for example. What about the times the Universe has information for you and that information isn’t specifically addressed to you. How would you know it was for you?

To give you an example, if you wanted to find a tutor for your child, you may ask your family or friends if they know of someone. If they don’t know of a tutor, you may go about your days wondering who you could get. Then one day you are standing in the supermarket waiting to pick up some fruit when all of a sudden the gentleman next to you is talking to a lady about the best tutor he has ever worked with. Does that gentleman have some information for you? That can be one way showing you how the Universe works to give you the information you are looking for.

In your day to day life, the Universe aligns everything in divine perfection for your learning and growing. It communicates in ways that you will understand. You only have to be open to what those ways may be for you.

What are the ways you continue to get your information from the Universe?

Self Empowerment

September 14, 2011 By Sheila Unique 2 Comments

What’s the big deal about self empowerment…why would anyone care? Self empowerment acknowledges you yourself as the leading authority when it comes to your own life. Self empowerment is an inside job! You see, you are the only person you take to bed with you every night and the only person you wake up with every morning. You are the only person who you take with you every where you go 24/7/365…that makes you the leading authority of your life and of your self. What would make that important?

You know in any moment of time if all of a sudden you feel sick or if you are bothered about what someone says or does. You know in any moment of time when something doesn’t feel right and its time to make a move. You know in any moment of time if something changes within you or about you. All you have to do is become aware. That awareness opens the door to feeling self empowered.

Why would you want to be your own leading authority? Have you ever noticed how people readily give you advice on what they think you should and shouldn’t do to resolve your problems? You see, those people may feel it’s easy for you to do what they suggest, but they are not in your shoes; they don’t know all your fears or all your failures or all your bothers; they have not walked the life you have nor can they. You are the one who can know how the people, things or situations link together giving you your learning and growing opportunities. You are with you 24/7/365 and know everything about you.

Every person has issues to deal with because every person is growing in some way. Your issues and problems are for you to grow through not for someone else to do it for you. No one can do your inner work for you. Everyone will have to deal with some issues that money can’t buy or fix. So if you have to be the one to count on, if you have to be your own leading authority…where can you begin to make a change in your life to feel more empowered on the inside?

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