I thank my wonderful daughter for the Mother’s Day gift she blessed me with.

We all have parents, whether they are still here on earth or they have passed on.  You may even be a parent yourself.  If you have issues with your parents and/or issues with your children…may you find peace in the learning of my recent experience.

My beautiful daughter had some dental work done to her teeth.  She called me to help her clear through some of the pain in her mouth.  As I asked her questions, I found out she was having issues with her mother-in-law. She shared what she was feeling and I continued to clear the energy causing her to have pain.  I got to a place where I said, ‘now it feels like there is pain from your childhood and it has to do with your mother.’  When I shared that, I asked her where she was feeling anything in her body.  She said the pain was in the root of the tooth the dentist was working on.

I feel it’s important for you to know I left my first marriage when the children were very young.  The children continued to live with their father and would stay with me once a month.  When I think back to what the children went through at that time, I couldn’t help but feel they must have some pain stored or locked up somewhere in their body mind and spirit. For my one daughter, there was pain in her teeth, gums and jaw area. It’s interesting that the area of pain was in the mouth and the ‘root’ of the tooth…the area that has to do with the spoken or not spoken words.

I could feel her energy clearing as we were talking.  I explained, her teeth and her mother-in-law were messengers inviting her to heal some issues with her mother.  I asked her to put her mother-in-law aside – look at what was bothering her about what she saw in the mother-in-law – feel it/heal it – then bring back the mother-in-law into the picture again.  All of a sudden my daughter wasn’t so bothered about her mother-in-law…not only that, the pain in her tooth had lessoned considerably. My daughter continued to clear issues around her mother, as well as being a mother herself.

Any time you have pain…doesn’t matter what it is…if you are wondering where your pain is coming from or why you would be experiencing pain at this time, look at what is going on in your life.  Look for the messengers and the messages in your pain.  PAIN GETS OUR ATTENTION.  What does it have to tell us?

Which messengers help us with what on our journey through life?  If we have a life lesson to walk through, will we find resolution by working with the person(s) who we perceived caused us the problems in the first place or will another ‘messenger’ show up to give us guidance? When we are ready to walk through or deal with our ‘stuff’, the Universe supports us.  Put another way…when our ‘stuff’ is in our face to deal with, it’s because we are ready for it and the messengers will be there to assist us in perfect ways for our own healing.

As parents, regardless if we are a mother or a father, we can feel at peace knowing our children will find their way and will heal through whatever they are called to walk through.  Their healing is about them and how they feel…not about us being a good or not good parent.

With our parents…the Universe will bring us the messengers that will assist us in healing the issues we perceive we have with our parents. Those messengers will push all the buttons we need pushed in order for us to move through our stuff, regardless if it is our parents or someone else.

So like my daughter, she was going through dental work, at the same time as having issues with her mother-in-law, at the same time as she healed some stuff from her childhood.  Is that just a fluke or is it divinely timed for my daughter’s healing.  You decide.

Sheila